From chapter 21 of the "Quest for Authentic Manhood" series in Robert Lewis's "Men's Fraternity",
#16. A servant-leader manages the schedule of the home and anticipates any pressure points.
#17. A servant-leader keeps his family financially sound and out of harmful debt.
#18. A servant-leader makes sure he and his wife have drawn up a will and arranged a well-conceived plan for their children in case of death.
#19. A servant-leader lets his wife and children into the interior of his life.
#20. A servant-leader honors his wife often in public.